Whilst I was (and still am) a Christian, I tried to explain how I felt about sex or didn't feel about sex, as the case was, it only ever got me looks like I thought I was "holier than thou". I knew I wasn't "virtuous" like they were thinking because where is the virtue in resisting temptation I never felt. *beats head on table* So in an effort to counteract this prudish image, I swore, a lot. And for some reason, tons of people will believe you aren't "holy" as long as you curse sufficiently. *heavy sigh* I couldn't have imagined adding racist misunderstandings on top of all that, misogyny was quite enough to be getting on with.