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2020-07-09 02:46 pm
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there’s a girl at my school who wears a cape. it’s purple. sometimes if it’s cold outside she’ll wear a black cape underneath it for more warmth. she is my favorite person.

yoursluttybarbacuedad:

We need to normalize wearing capes again. Fuck coats. I want the leaves to crunch underneath my boots, three journals tucked under my arm, and the ends of my cape billowing in the wind behind me as I make my way up the river bank, briskly walking in the cold autumn air.
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2020-07-09 02:46 pm
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kyluxkawaii: kyluxpositivityweek Day 2   You

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kyluxpositivityweek Day 2  

You were just nearby

(Twitter→[profile] kyluxpositivity)
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2020-07-09 01:46 pm
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gaysails:dear followers, today I offer you incredibly niche content that is deeply fulfilling to me.

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gaysails:

dear followers, today I offer you incredibly niche content that is deeply fulfilling to me first and only. tomorrow? The Same
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2020-07-09 01:46 pm
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stillthewordgirl:

cameoamalthea:

the-edge-marquess:

tamhonks:

Female Character: *Everybody is immediately drawn to her for no discernible reason*

Female Character: *Extremely powerful compared to all of the other characters within the story; there’s no reason as to how she became so powerful*

Female Character: *For some reason is able to quickly pick up new skills in a period of time comparable to a genius; no explanation for this too.*

Female Character:  *has virtually no weaknesses except she’s clumsy teehee :)*

Person: Isn’t this kind of a mary-sue?

Tumblr: why do misogynists like to invalidate strong female characters???????????

If we’re going to be fair here, the reason so many people get upset when a female character is called a Mary Sue is because that label is thrown around so haphazardly and so very often handed to characters who really don’t deserve to be labeled as such. The controversy of the term comes from its overuse and misuse.

The term can be used correctly, but it is too often misused by people who see a capable strong female character and have a gut instinct to burn the witch and return to their male hero power fantasy.

To quote [profile] ladyloveandjustice

“So, there’s this girl. She’s tragically orphaned and richer than anyone on the planet. Every guy she meets falls in love with her, but in between torrid romances she rejects them all because she dedicated to what is Pure and Good. She has genius level intellect, Olympic-athelete level athletic ability and incredible good looks. She is consumed by terrible angst, but this only makes guys want her more. She has no superhuman abilities, yet she is more competent than her superhuman friends and defeats superhumans with ease. She has unshakably loyal friends and allies, despite the fact she treats them pretty badly. They fear and respect her, and defer to her orders. Everyone is obsessed with her, even her enemies are attracted to her. She can plan ahead for anything and she’s generally right with any conclusion she makes. People who defy her are inevitably wrong.

God, what a Mary Sue.

I just described Batman.”

(Source: http://ladyloveandjustice.tumblr.com/post/13913540194/mary-sue-what-are-you-or-why-the-concept-of-sue/amp)

The problem isn’t that characters are unrealistic. Heroes often are unrealistic and it’s ok to criticize media.

However, female characters are criticized where male characters aren’t.

Everything in OP’s post could apply to Luke Skywalker (and definitely applies to Anakin) but those characters won’t be criticized the way Rey has been (even though everything Rey does in The Force Awakens is believable). We are more willingly to believe in a male chosen one who can just do amazing things because he’s the hero.

Boys can have wishfulment stories but girls can only have realistic stories.

^^^^

So, there’s this interesting thing where a certain degree of saturation in stories will train the audience to just accept stuff that’d normally strike them as bizarre or unrealistic, and move on without questioning it. It’s sort of like ‘willing suspension of disbelief’, except that phrasing doesn’t really encapsulate it precisely. It’s more like… commonality breeds acceptance.

For example, a humble young boy who rises to prominence and becomes a hero is such a standard piece of storytelling, that virtually no one ever sits down to watch a movie and actually goes ‘well, but, this is just a young farm lad - surely he can’t do a single thing to help stop the Forces of Evil!’ People in the movie might do that. But unless the audience is very, very young, or has somehow managed to avoid most books, movies, songs, comics, television shows, and oral traditions for the whole of their life, they’re going to sit down and think ‘ah yes, here’s our guy’.

Even though, in real life, it actually IS still pretty far-fetched for Ye Humble Village Lad to turn out to be the only thing standing between mankind and destruction.

The interesting thing, though, is that if you change enough elements of what is so common as to be thoughtlessly accepted, the image you present will no longer resemble the familiar narrative. Even if, below the surface, the other components are exactly the same.

This, along with the above-mentioned misogyny, is another contributing factor to the Mary Sue thing.

Because there are fewer female heroes who are just unabashed power fantasies, embodying unlikely rises to success or mastery of untold skills, if you take a very typical story that stars a dude and swap him out for a lady, the elements once rendered invisible by familiarity, are now noticeable again. The audience is jolted out of complacency, and begins to think more critically about what they’re being asked to believe. (You can accomplish the same thing with other demographics, too, i.e. putting characters of colour in roles typically given to white actors, or having LGBT+ characters with the same abundance as straight ones, and so on and so forth.)

So even people who like to think of themselves as totally fair and unprejudiced can end up enforcing double-standards in entertainment. Because if you don’t catch yourself, you will not even realize that you managed to sit through three Iron Man movies without ever questioning the premise of Tony Stark’s genius, but somehow Shuri in Black Panther just struck you as ‘unrealistic’. 
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2020-07-09 01:46 pm
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I remember in middle school and high school before I went on HRT I would have bouts of depression over the idea of leaving the house and being perceived as a gender I wasn’t or of being misgendered/outed to other people (as I was still stealth at the time). So yeah, I agree. I never see people talking about it and it’s a very real and alienating experience. 
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2020-07-09 12:46 pm
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bimbocraticdialogue:Women in Bradley County Jail are being kept in horrible, unsanitary, and unsafe.

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Women in Bradley County Jail are being kept in horrible, unsanitary, and unsafe conditions. Literally signs for help in the window.

The best way to help is to bail them out!!

Please if you have a couple of dollars to spare we are doing our best to get as many women out. Women who can’t, will get money in their commissary for sanitary products.

https://gf.me/u/ycwbzw

https://gf.me/u/ycwbzw
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2020-07-09 11:46 am
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snaufey:In this house we love and support aro/ace people!On a more serious note, I will be eternally

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snaufey:

In this house we love and support aro/ace people!

On a more serious note, I will be eternally grateful for what you guys have done for me as well. Being told that it was okay to not be sure and that exploring and changing the way you identify is a positive thing was exactly what I needed to hear. Just because I no longer id as aroace doesn’t make it any less valid of an identity because at the time that’s what I felt desrcibed me best. I feel like no one understands just how fluid gender and sexuality can be as well as the aro/ace community, and we should all strive to create an environment where people can come to terms with their identity without fearing ridicule for switching between identities.

When I knew that I didn’t want a boyfriend, I wasn’t ready to accept my attraction to women. I needed to feel okay with not experiencing the same attraction as my peers to fully come to terms with my love for women and without the aro/ace community’s support, that would have been a much lengthier, complicated process.

This pride month we should focus on our similarities and uplift each other! That’s what it’s always been about!

simpleasexual:

The lesbian community was the first place I ran to when I considered never having a boyfriend. Lesbians gave me the strength and confidence I needed to accept I didn’t like men. Without lesbians, I would have been lost and vulnerable for many more years.

I spent a LONG time switching between “I don’t like men, I must be a lesbian” and “I’m not DISGUSTED by possibly having a husband or wife, I must be bisexual”. I knew of asexuality but at the time, asexuality felt like a punishment worse than death.

Seeing so many wlw, specificity lesbians, have such similar stories to me was the last push I needed to move on. Not liking men was okay. Having “no preference” was okay. Being asexual was okay. No matter how much people try to put us against each other, we’ll always have more similarities than differences. Our history is forever linked. I’m eternally grateful for what lesbians have done for me.

snaufey:

As a lesbian who used to identify as aro/ace, I just wanna say that I’m never going to stop supporting the aro/ace community. It was a big part of my personal journey and I really valued being part of a group that’s so open to people exploring their identity. If you don’t believe that aro/ace identities are valid and belong in the lgbt+ community, I don’t want you on my blog
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2020-07-09 11:46 am
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spainonymous:

Nazi lives don’t matter

is tom morello wearing a moomin shirt?
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2020-07-09 11:46 am
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fairy-humor:

moss cake moss cake moss cake m o s s  c a k e

A stinging nettle and Douglas fir cake, actually!

Please credit people for their work, this is from the Wondersmith’s incredibly cool blog and not only does she deserve credit for her amazing recipes, but she has so many more of them that are worth browsing as well. She’s one of my absolutely favorite sources for foraged recipes with a little bit of magic to them and a pretty cool human.
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2020-07-09 11:46 am
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Will Thrawn finally get a good explanation about the Force? Mmmh… perhaps not.

The thrilling sequel to this comic. 
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2020-07-09 10:46 am
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serialreblogger:

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serialreblogger:

masochist-incarnate:

tiredcoffeebeanthings:

greatwhiteprivilege:

serbianslayer:

firefoxed:

why would a candle thats already lit want to be with a match

also her being lit is going to eventually melt her and reduce her to nothing

match guy is an abusive sadboy who thinks he’s the victim when candlegirl just wants someone who will keep her alive

im here for this analysis

Also extinguisher dude has a better sense of fashion

And a fucking motorcycle

Bold of you to assume candle girl’s the one matchboy’s pining for

[profile] serialreblogger imagine all the fires they could start

On date nights they commit arson

Turns out Matchboy was sad because it was supposed to be his turn to ride the motorcycle

I return after a thousand years to this post to see a polyam addition /chef’s kiss/ bless
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2020-07-09 09:46 am
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thiswaycomessomethingwicked: lesbeet: margaret atwood posted an article on twitter about how...

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lesbeet:

margaret atwood posted an article on twitter about how biological sex isn’t binary and terfs are losing their minds and talking about how sex is divided into “gestators and inseminators” (i’ve literally never seen that phrase used before and it made me gag”) and how “you wrote a whole book about this and now you’re perpetuating this nonsense?” as if one of the primary take-aways of that very book isn’t that separating people into social classes based on their ability to “gestate” and “inseminate” is unethical, oppressive, highly damaging, etc

like….way to completely entirely 100% miss the point and then embarrass yourself by trying to lecture the author over your own stupidity lol

oh wow Atwood had a good take on something for once.  
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2020-07-09 09:46 am
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naniiebimworks: Early 1960′s? Greaser Crowley

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Early 1960′s? Greaser Crowley is still an Aziraphale pushover.

Terrible Grease 2 AU. I can’t and CAN imagine Az as a Pink lady- but they both more likely to be pariahs in diff sides.

Pink Lady being the name of an apple variety now makes it very apt [profile] w@
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2020-07-09 09:46 am
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naniiebimworks: There are a few Bentley things Crowley will...

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There are a few Bentley things Crowley will sort out by hand.

Coffee Break.

though essentially i think Aziraphale is just going to sit to one side  eat the snacks he bought while watching Crowley finish shining the car.