May. 5th, 2020

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Japanese aquarium urges public to video-chat eels who are forgetting humans exist
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artyaourter:

k before i lose my nerve.

Happy Birthday [profile] cracktheglasses! I hope you have a wonderful day in Thedas! (fuck the Exalted Plains.)

the fic.
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mysticmilks:

We all know and love Kylux AU, with gladiator Kylo Ren But what about Gladiator!Hux and prince Ben Organa?
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spacepsychologist:

missbuster:

flootzavut:

perfectlyhopeless:

bruh-moment-dot-jpeg:

boop-le-beep:

emilyelizabethfowl:

the-fandoms-are-cool:

leradny:

videohall:

Astronaut readjusts to life back on Earth

> Don’t give him a baby for a while.

HE GRABS THE CUP BUT THEN HE DROPS THE PEN 0.0003 SECONDS LATER

AND HE LOOKS UP AT THE CEILING INSTEAD OF AT THE GROUND WHEN HE CAN’T FIND THEM

I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING HE JUST DROPS IT

IT’S NOT FUNNY IT’S VERY LOGICAL THAT HE WOULD HAVE ADJUSTED TO LIVING LIFE WHILE HE WAS IN SPACE BECAUSE IT’S DIFFERENT FROM EARTH BUT I CAN’T FUCKING BREATHE

*THUNK*

i love it so much every time i see it

“ugh stupid gravity” 

IM FUXKING CSHAKING

I haven’t seen this post on my dash in *years* bless this

Bless, this is absolutely amazing

I love this. It’s so gestural and he’s so exasperated about gravity.

The perfect comedic timing of the NASA logo.
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lennythereviewer:

Any time Tumblr starts complaining about a villain acting like a villain
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definitely-not-kylo-ren:

“What am I going to do with you, Ren?”



Thanks to [profile] emperorsvornskr for the wonderful list of ideas. I wanted to do this one right away.

Check out more art and support me on my patreon
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ellalba:

Rescue from Starkiller base.

Started working on a really simple snowy woods drawing when I thought to myself “Hey, might as well turn this into fanart”. Funny I’ve never done a fall of Starkiller base piece, almost every kyluxer has!
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himrings:

the “what do you fear, my lady?” scene where eowyn talks about “a cage” is undoubtedly a great one however it’s kind of a loss that the dialogue that directly preceded it is not there in the film because

OH MY GOD

“WHEN THE MEN HAVE DIED IN BATTLE AND HONOR, YOU HAVE LEAVE TO BE BURNED IN THE HOUSE”

what kind of raw female dialogue holy shit
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ducks-are-what-water-slides-off:

jemariel:

theactualcluegirl:

This blogger remembers when we didn’t have AO3.

This blogger remembers when we had to put disclaimers at the head of our fics and pray that someone didn’t take it into their heads to sue us for what we created.

This blogger remembers brilliant artists and writers getting decades of work obliterated on LJ because someone who wanted to tell people what they were allowed to create went running to someone who wanted a profit, and told them the artists and writers had been naughty.

This blogger remembers just how hard the creators of AO3 worked to build the thing we all seem to take for granted now.

This blogger watched friends dive into the creation process so heartily and determinedly that they all but disappeared from the writing/gaming/artistic side of their fandom for YEARS while they worked to make the archive happen.

This blogger remembers the sense of giddy wonder that there would possibly be LAWYERS involved, willing to defend our right to create these works, and not leave us hanging at the mercy of corporate legal teams.

This blogger is aware that she reads between twenty to fifty books’ worth of material every year on AO3, and is never REQUIRED to pay a penny for the privilege of getting access.

This blogger is aware that she will not ever see advertisements on AO3, and that her personal data and reading preferences won’t be sold to advertisers in order to raise the money that AO3 needs to pay for the services they provide.

This blogger is aware that AO3 is, and has always been, a labor of love; by fans, for fans, and not for profiting off fans – and this is what makes it unique in the whole of the media universe.

This blogger has NEVER taken AO3 for granted, and has ALWAYS been damned glad to have access to it.  Even in years when this blogger didn’t have the means to support it financially.

Long Live Ao3

Here, here!
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gothrey:

The DARK SIDE of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural.
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poetry-protest-pornography:

everywitchway:

derinthemadscientist:

minervamagooglie:

positive-memes:

Nothing more wholesome than loving and supportive parents

“I don’t get it, but I’m willing to feel awkward and embarrassed until I figure it out so that you never have to feel awkward or embarrassed with me” is peak parenthood.

These cupcakes are indeed kinda gay

Wonderful

A+ parenting, A+ kinda gay cupcakes
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elodieunderglass:

The Fun Guys!!

lloerwyn:

All That the Rain Promises and More! I have this book and I love it. It’s so full of joyful pictures of people and mushrooms:

kalcl:

You guys are totally missing the best pictures from actual mycologists

lloerwyn:

Oh to be the man in these stock photos…
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hip-shop:

hot new tumblr discourse

put in the tags your opinions on wearing shoes in the house and why
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It’s not just a coincidence, it’s a mistake. We got the information from Wikipedia, but I have no idea who put it in there. Colin Smythe, Terry’s agent, just pointed out to us that the book was actually published on May 10th. So we can have another birthday in a bit over a week, if we want.
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radicalposture:

the optician prescribing me new glasses
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lyledebeast:

It strikes me as interesting that Hux’s defining characteristic in TRoS is his obsequiousness.  He spends most of his three minutes of screentime trying to ingratiate himself to Ren and Pryde, and, like his abuse in TLJ, it reads a little differently when we know his backstory.  Looking at TRoS alone, it’s clear that Hux is playing a part to avoid suspicion because he’s betraying the FO to the Resistance.  If we look at the ancillary materials, though, it is clear that Hux has always been in a position where he needed to please people who had power over him and despised him.  And he’s apparently responsible for the deaths of many of them.

Hux’s obsequiousness is first and foremost a survival tactic.  It’s troubling that the movie presents this as a distasteful quality when Hux is working under someone who nearly killed him for giving advice he didn’t like in TLJ.  Presenting a character as reprehensible for behaving in ways that mitigate his abuse has problematic implications for real world abuse survivors.  In spite of how the movie presents this, though, the tactic itself is very effective. Many people have commented on how much healthier Hux looks in TRoS than in TLJ, and the best Watsonian explanation for that is probably that he isn’t being tortured anymore. He has managed to control his behavior in the time intervening between the two storylines so that Ren believes he has that runt Hux completely whipped.

He does not, in fact, have that runt Hux completely whipped.  Hux is giving FO secrets to their enemies under Ren’s nose, his force-sensitivity notwithstanding. Kylo Ren doesn’t defeat Hux, and the tactic of encouraging his abusers to underestimate him does not fail.   Hux dies because the Resistance heroes get themselves caught on a FO ship. Again.  He finds himself in a situation he didn’t account for, and his means of dealing with it fail.  Pryde correctly recognizes that if Finn, Poe, and Chewie were able to fight their way out, Hux wouldn’t be the person they left alive; it’s a really bad lie.

Hux’s mistake is saving the Resistance heroes, and it costs him everything he has.  But it does play some small role in the FO being defeated.  And even if Kylo Ren doesn’t “lose”–except in being shrugged off like an old overcoat by Ben Solo, who somehow has agency now–he doesn’t triumph over Hux either.  We’re not shown Kylo’s reaction to Pryde’s message about the spy, which leaves us free to imagine him realizing what a fool he’s been.  I guess that’s some consolation.
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callmebliss:

kedreeva:

ser-charlemagne:

n0nb1narydemon:

wingedspirit:

So I was rewatching the Lockdown video, as one does, and noticed something I hadn’t before…

I’m gonna say that’s one of Crowley’s feathers and you cannot change my mind about it.

Just please know I’ve been in constant shit-losing mode since seeing this post the first time. I’ve been showing people your post and hollering about it in group chats. I’m so glad you spotted this.

I thought this was his ink quill. It’s present in the set dressing on his desk in the show!

So… I’m back. And you’re right in that it’s probably his ink quill, but here is the thing. If this was the average human who just wanted a fancy ink quill, they’d do what humans who want to look fancy in the modern day do with feathers and put a nib on the end of it and leave all the vanes attached.

The problems being a) this isn’t your average human, this is someone who lived through the centuries when they used quills as pens and b) that’s not how quills were generally used.

Quills, when they were in use, mostly were made from swan feathers (or goose feathers, if you didn’t have the $$ for swan feathers) and mostly looked like this:

Here’s one from a museum:

But why, Ked??

Because several reasons! One, you didn’t need the upper part of the feather swishing around and slowing down your writing. Two, a feather with vanes and upper part cut off takes up less space to be stored. Three, if you left the vanes on, they’d just get destroyed anyway, and end up looking like this from your hand rubbing on them all the time:

Feather quills also generally did not have metal nibs, and definitely not before the 19th century. Their tips looked more like this:

I tell you all of this because I want you to know something important, and that is that the feather in the video, and in the show, is not just some random feather. It probably is one of Crowley’s. I know this because Aziraphale would know exactly how quills were used back in the day for average use, and he would also have seen the transition to metal nibs, and also have seen the transition to modern day fancier quill solutions, and if he wanted to write with a quill, Aziraphale (of all people) is apt to be someone to follow the rules and use the original style if it were a normal feather.

Ah, but one of Crowley’s? A feather where the point of having it is to have it close, have it whole, or as whole as possible? A feather he would like to keep intact but cannot justify to his boss as Just Having Around?

Please look at the base of this feather from the video:

Now please have a look here:

I can almost guarantee you that this is what Aziraphale did with one of Crowley’s feathers as soon as he found out he could. This is fancy and way more modern than the originals he would have experienced, but it preserves the vanes while giving him space to hold the quill to write, AND it’s fancy enough that it excuses leaving the vanes on instead of stripping them. This is the sort of quill you have when you want to show off your extra fancy feather.

Or, at least, the sort of quill you have when you want to keep your “enemy” a little bit closer than your boss is probably comfortable with.

Also please remember that all through our fanning about the original GO stuff, the showrunners kept responding that yes, everything is intentional, everything is deiberate - I have no reason to believe this to be accidental and every reason to think that yes, Az absolutely has a Crowley-feather quill pen.

I wonder this: does it retain any connection to Crowley? Does it become a snake scale if he shifts?
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elfwreck:

sexydexynurse:

thekristen999:

trisscar368:

Rule one of fandom: there are some things that only exist for us.

Don’t send actors fics

Don’t give them explicit art ever

Don’t tag them in rpf questions or theories

Don’t try to bring them into fandom drama of any kind

Don’t hold them responsible for what the producers and writers decide

They’re still people.  They have private lives, which do not include fandom.

louder for the people in the back!

For fandoms that don’t have actors? Don’t do this to the content creators either.

Don’t bring them your discourse about characters.

Don’t bring them into your shipping wars.

No matter how much interaction they have with fans, they aren’t your friend. They are the content creator and you are the fan.

Yes, hold the people responsible for writing and creating content responsible for things that are racist, misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, classist, etc. And encourage them to do better.

Do not expect them to cater to your desires regarding character arcs and canon ships.

There are actors and some content creators, especially in film, who adore fandom and think it’s all wonderful.

THEY WILL FIND US.

You don’t have to send things to them. The fact that fanfic and fanart exist are no longer fringe-group secrets. Everyone in the entertainment industries know that fanworks exist. You don’t have to tell them. You don’t have to tell them that some of it is explicit; you don’t have to tell them that a lot is not. You don’t have to show them that some is adorably cute.

If they’re interested, they’ll seek it out. Don’t inflict fanworks and fandom drama on them; you don’t know what squicks them, what reminds them of some personal trauma - and what they are contractually, legally required not to acknowledge. (Or what they are legally required to report to someone else, which is worse.)

If they like fandom, they can find it. You don’t have to let them know it’s here, and you don’t know enough about their tastes to recommend “the good stuff.” 
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poemsingreenink:

thesaddestchorusgirlintheworld:

K. Austin Collins, Empty Gestures:  Are We Really Going to Pretend That Gay Kiss in The Rise of Skywalker Matters?

It’s true and you should SCREAM it.
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pileofsith:

May 5th - Star Wars Villain’s Day

Have a happy belated Revenge of the Fifth! I drew the Sith for three years in a row for this occasion, so here are some imperials this year instead.

Rae Sloane, Thrawn + his ysalamir Admiral Snoots, Wullf Yularen, Orson Krennic, a very brave stormtrooper and a special guest in the background.

Thank you [profile] permian_tropos for the idea of this group pic! Like Mean Girls, but they wear white on Wednesdays.
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pileofsith:

May 5th - Star Wars Villains Day: Revenge of the Fifth

The Sith Rule of Two gets a bit wobbly around festive drinks…

Featuring: Darth Plagueis, Darth Sidious, Darth Maul, Asajj Ventress and Darth Tyranus

(The only reason they’re cheerfully smiling at each other is because they all had the clever idea of poisoning everyone else’s champagne. The results: 5 hangovers and antidote sessions.)
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gemennair:

“I could slither over and watch you eat cake.”

“I’m afraid that will be breaking all the rules!“ 

Had to do a speedpaint after hearing that absolutely adorable Good Omens Anniversary video yesterday; it’s too adorable not to so I just had to illustrate it! Posted it early for patrons, reckon y’all might like to see it too. Also I just have to do some quick drawing for the anniversary since I wanna celebrate it.

Happy 30th birthday, Good Omens! <3

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textsfromstarkiller:

(215): look, bitch. one day when everyone i care about deserts me for my severe moral depravity, you’re going to be the only one i have.

(302): i can’t wait.
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noctdivina:

You have failed again, I see. But through suffering, you will grow strong. Isn’t that what you want?
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Listen they held corvids as important sacred symbols so that ought to tell you a lot right there
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darkside-fashion:

First Order social distancing meetings. 
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gluten-free-pussy:

hrmsketches:

royalhans:

polar opposite of this post

animution11:

gluten-free-pussy:

I was high off my ass last night and had this dream where I was in this dense ass forest and sitting there was a tall woman. She was so tall I couldn’t see her face but she was wearing gold and I was like “uh…hi?” And she said “I made you, do you know that?” And I nodded and she was like “I hear your thoughts. Why do you hate my creation? Why do you try to destroy yourself? I made you perfect as you are. Please don’t break my heart”. Then she started crying and it flooded and I woke up with fucking heart palpitations like what does it Mean™️????

inspiration struck and would not let me go until i drew this

This is really beautiful!!!

Interestingly enough, I was raised by a strict atheist, and had a conversion experience in my twenties, where I was awake and had a vision where it seemed I met Jesus. This was almost exactly what he said to me. I’ve been a Christian ever since.
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mikiyusado:

cleoselene:

eposettemyass:

one thing that has always bothered me about theatre, and broadway especially, is that ever since i was little theatre has always been “a girl’s things”. it’s shown as girly and young boys who are interested in theatre are assumed to be gay or are made fun of. and yet, in major theatre productions, you hardly ever see women. women aren’t known producers, they aren’t recognized playwrights and composers, and plays- mostly musicals- hardly ever have more than two female characters in the spotlight. it’s yet another “girl’s thing” that’s dominated by men.

just like women are expected to be great chefs at home but most of the worlds master chefs are men

just like teaching K-12 (which is part child care) is seen as women’s work but the university level is dominated by men in tenured positions

just like high fashion has a shit ton of male designers who are considered “elite” but most men would ask their wives to sew a button their shirts

Just like men “make art” and women “do crafts”
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lovetourmaline:

itsevidentvery:

Look, ‘slither over…watch you eat cake’ would. Not. Let. Me. Be. So here is The Obligatory Quarantine Ficlet, in which Crowley does watch Aziraphale eat cake over Zoom, and slithering is at least strongly implied.

Keep reading

Gah, I love everything about this!
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owlmylove:

no one tells you how much of life takes practice. not just writing, painting, running, singing, etc, but practicing how to make friends. how to make the right ones. getting practiced at how to be a good friend, a good sibling, a good person. practice identifying when people haven’t earned that. learning to recognize your right to rage and, eventually, how to offer mercy. so much of life is muscle memory, and i’ve begun to realize there are so many more parts of ourselves to flex and stretch and strengthen than those we’re taught in anatomy lessons
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fuckyeahfluiddynamics:

We rarely consider just how complex the process is when we speak or sing. (Image and video credit: T. Ross; via Flow Vis)
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directorlazard:

rapeculturerealities:

fuckyeahifightlikeagirl:

sweetsugaryshock:

beben-eleben:

For future reference.

Thank you.

For those who would ever need it. -C

reblogging here because i can see this being relevant to anyone who’s ever tried to get out of an abusive relationship

Reblogging because that last comment made me reread the whole thing in a new light and realize this could be vital information. So, putting it out there for everyone, and hoping no one ever really needs it.
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kr1g:

Yea things aren’t great right now but at least I get to watch sweet potatoes shoot out long climbing vines, my corn sprouts grow an inch in just a day, and cucumbers curling their tendrils around the supports I set up for them
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thequeenofcarrotflowers:

reblog if yr proud of him
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hetrez:

Does anybody else ever think about how Crowley in this scene is in public, in a smallish space, with a non-zero number of people also hanging out, and he’s basically just screaming into empty space and not one single person seems to even notice?

This is his regular bar. They are used to him. If he’s not talking to himself about how he didn’t actually mean to Fall, he just lost his balance, then he’s going up to random patrons and asking them, angrily, how they would define the word ‘fraternizing’. The first time Crowley brings Aziraphale here, after the not-end of the world, the bartender gives Aziraphale a long, long look, and then says, “So you’re real, are you? Well, I lost that bet.”

Crowley is That Guy at this bar. They love him. If Beelzebub had come for him in this bar instead of St James’s Park, the bartender and all six other patrons would have smashed whiskey bottles over Beez’s super dramatic insect cossack hat until she gave up and ran away.
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antifashaming:

mysticben:

What a concept

Turns out that when you humiliate stupid people instead of making martyrs out of them, they lose interest in doing stupid shit pretty fast.
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traitspourtraits:

We can’t go back to normal because normal was the problem
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trooperst-3v3:

Was very tired by the time my last class started yesterday, so I put on a holovid and told the cadets to behave themselves to I could grade papers.

I’ve really just mastered the art of taking a nap while sitting up straight at my desk, but they don’t know that. It’s not like they can see my eyes through the helmet lenses, right?

They apparently figured out I wasn’t paying attention, anyway, because when I woke up, the holoprojector had been dismantled and reassembled into a small, simple droid that could dance on their desk tops.

I’m so proud I could die <3
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poe-dameron:

John Boyega on Force Sensitive Finn during his At Home Interview 

Are we meant to believe that Finn is a Jedi or is it an implication that there are more force sensitive people out there? I don’t know specifically if he is a Jedi, just seems to be that so much of Finn’s life is a mystery.

Did you guys shoot that? Yeah, I think we did. I can’t remember, but I think we did. But it was definitely on the script, where there was a conversation and Rey had already kind of knew.
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jaubaius:

I love you too.

“Scrappy baby.” “screppy.” “Scrappy Baby.” “screppy beeb.” “Scrappy BABY.” “screppy BABYBABYBABYBABYBABYBABY”

Source:https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/fx4d0a/scrappy_b_a_b_y/
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star-anise:

anaisnein:

findingfeather:

starsunderfog:

star-anise:

laurusalexandercrown:

star-anise:

star-anise:

major-sparkles-armstrong:

skiinny-bird:

homoslovenc:

rexieboii:

radiqueer:

one fairly common experience of gifted children is wishing for pain. wishing you had some great big horrible thing in your past so that you can justify the pain you’re in, and so that you’ll deserve help. it’s exhausting and it fucks you up and to anyone out there who feels like they haven’t suffered enough to get help: you’re allowed to want help. you’re in enough pain. you deserve to feel better

holy shit yeah

is this one of those things that everyone actually does?? i just assumed i was a shitty person

Wait that’s normal?

It’s not “normal” as in “everybody feels this way so suck it up and quit whining”.

It’s “normal” as in “many people experience pain, loneliness, anxiety, self-hatred, and other symptoms of mental illness that feel like they ‘don’t count’ because there’s no real Thing they can point to to explain it, but their pain and suffering are real and ought to be taken seriously.”

However, when I say “many people” I actually mean “less than a quarter of the population”. The vast majority of people aren’t in massive internal pain most of the time. If this post resonates with you, I super recommend you look into mental health resources, because nobody deserves to feel this way, and there’s a very real hope that information, understanding, therapy, and/or medication can work together to help you feel better.

Fantasizing about being hurt or dying in some way so that everyone realizes how much pain you’re in isn’t a sign that you’re a terrible person. It’s a sign that YOU’RE IN A LOT OF PAIN. Pain that deserves help and that CAN be helped.

The notes on this post today make me wanna CRY.

…sorry, did you just say the vast majority of people aren’t in massive internal pain most of the time???? what

So here’s where I’m getting my statistics from:

One basic test of massive internal pain is a depression test. Here’s one such questionnaire, the PHQ-9. It lists nine symptoms of depression and asks people how much they have experienced them over the last few weeks. Among them are symptoms like, “Feeling down, depressed, or hopeless,” “Feeling bad about yourself – or that you are a failure or have let yourself or your family down,” and “Thoughts that you would be better off dead or of hurting yourself in some way.”

It’s scored by asking people to rate if they’ve experienced the thing: 0, not at all, 1, several days, 2, more than half the days, or 3, nearly every day. Then you get a total score by adding up the ranking of each of the nine symptoms listed. So the lowest possible score is 0 (never experienced any of the symptoms) and the highest possible is 27 (all the symptoms nearly every day). The PHQ-9 considers scores above 5 to indicate mild depression, above 10, moderate, and above 15, moderate to severe depression.

When you run thousands of people through the PHQ-9–for example, if you ask doctor’s offices to ask everyone seeing their doctor for any reason to take it–this is what the score distribution looks like: 

Far and away, the most common score is 0. The vast majority of people experience no symptoms of depression in their daily lives. The vast majority of people do not feel hopeless, do not feel like failures, and do not think they would be better off if they were dead in their day-to-day lives.

Depression really is unusual, not the natural state of human existence, and, in the majority of cases, really truly treatable. 

FWIW, I think a large part of why people often have the impression that depression, and sometimes even suicidal depression, is normal or common, is because it’s common within their particular social circle. It may be important to bear in mind that LGBTQ people suffer from depression at much higher rates than the general population, especially trans people. I was absolutely floored when I first read that very, VERY few cisgender, straight, etc. people experience suicidal thoughts with any kind of frequency, because almost all of my friends were depressed.

Also honestly: mentally ill people often clump up the same way that queer people will. 

My social circle contains my BFF who we also occasionally call our token heterosexual. And also our token neurotypical. (she’s even not quite, as she’s Gifted.) 

Some mentally ill people, like some queer people, will indeed find themselves totally isolated in a world of the majority: but if there ARE others like us around? we do tend to clump up. Because our shared point of view, our shared experiences, etc, often make us more relatable to one another

re the depression assessment tool linked upthread, be careful, i feel like the pandemic situation is a potential confounder? situational depression counts as depression so the test is probably accurate in the broad y/n sense regardless, but the scoring rubric may not be calibrated for our times. i just tested as moderate to severe because, like, okay, “little interest or pleasure in doing things,” why yes, this describes my experience on approximately 14 out of the last 14 days, guess i’m scoring the maximum three points on that question! but it’s not actually very interesting information right now because *gestures at fucking everything* i’m fairly sure functionally speaking what i have is mild depression, and, like, not to minimize that, but i’m not in the day-to-day bad way moderate to severe implies.

[personal profile] star_anise thoughts? idk what therapists are doing about this currently.

also i don’t know what i’m even trying to suggest here, i’m mostly just being fretful and overthinky. if you think you might have hitherto unsuspected depression try and make a telehealth appointment and get assessed by a human. primary care can do it, or your area may have a mental health hotline.

Eh, it… kind of is interesting information, actually. Depression and anxiety rates really are spiking because of the pandemic and if they aren’t treated, they can lead to really unhealthy behaviours and comorbid health conditions.

Because while situational depression may often dissipate when the situation changes, it’s still depression now. Especially since this situation might drag out for months—god forbid, maybe even years. It’s not like it’s going to end next week. So we can’t just sit back and say “It’s situational! It’ll be over before you know it!”

What therapists are doing, so far as I can see, is madly scrambling to make therapy accessible to isolated people, and breaking down the doors of insurance companies and governments to try to make them disburse radically more for affordable mental health treatment than they normally do. My licensing body, for example, keeps sending me letter templates they want me to send to my elected officials asking them for more funding. (And it is working, at least here—there’s a lot more free therapy available now than there was in March)
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Dumpster Diving and Cops/Mall security/Legalities

Cops are everywhere at night. There’s generally nothing for them to do but patrol and they have quotas to fill. Knowing your rights and legalities can ensure you walk away unscathed.

Personally, cops are just a pesky nuisance to me. However, my experience is not universal because I have certain privileges and so do the people I dumpster dive with.

Things that are generally illegal: dumpster diving where it is specifically outlawed, trespassing, breaking and entering, littering, dumping trash in a dumpster that is not yours

Dumpster diving: In general, always check beforehand if dumpster diving is legal where you know you’ll be dumpster diving, that way you’ll be more prepared to handle getting caught either way. To find out if dumpster diving is prohibited by local law, search “dumpster diving law” + the town you’ll be diving in. Do this for every town in your area.

Trespassing: If you are caught dumpster diving and you are told to leave, just leave. Say “sorry I didn’t see the sign”, get your stuff, and go. If you are told to leave by the owner of the property you are on and you don’t leave, you are trespassing. If you know you are trespassing, you are trespassing. You can get arrested for trespassing.

Breaking and entering: Breaking and entering is illegal. It sends a brash statement to the people who use that dumpster about dumpster divers, so don’t do this wilynily. Property owners may respond by putting up cameras, asking police to patrol the area, and in general, making it more difficult and/or riskier to dumpster dive there.

Littering: If you take trash bags out of the dumpster to get better access to loot, always put them back. In general always clean up any trash around, that way nobody can claim you’re littering.

Dumping trash: This is throwing away personal trash in someone else’s dumpster. It’s not what dumpster divers do, but you may be accused of dumping trash because it’s common and illegal.

Know your rights: From ACLU.org, “Being stopped by police is a stressful experience that can go bad quickly. Here we describe what the law requires and also offer strategies for handling police encounters. We want to be clear: The burden of de-escalation does not fall on private citizens — it falls on police officers. However, you cannot assume officers will behave in a way that protects your safety or that they will respect your rights even after you assert them. You may be able to reduce risk to yourself by staying calm and not exhibiting hostility toward the officers. The truth is that there are situations where people have done everything they could to put an officer at ease, yet still ended up injured or killed.” I suggest reading this page and looking up your rights based on where you live. This might seem unnecessary, but knowing your rights could buy you your safety or even your life.

If you are approached by cops and you’re not doing anything illegal, stay calm and talk to them, mostly they’re bored and curious about what your doing. They’ll usually ask for your ID, for this reason, always have your ID in your car (but not on you, bc you could lose it). Make sure all your tickets are paid off and you don’t have any outstanding warrants out for your arrest.

Cops are everywhere, especially at night (and where you can’t see them). FOLLOW ALL TRAFFIC LAWS including staying under the speed limit and always using turn signals. Cops are bored at night and have quotas to fill, and none of us need a ticket.

So in general, leave the areas you dive at the same as (or cleaner than) how you found it, know your rights, and be cautious. Also read up about dumpster diving safety, and may your hauls be bountiful. ♻️
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profeminist:

profeminist:

“National Geographic called me and asked me to write the feminist facts about how The Lion King gets lion pride dynamics all wrong. I happily complied. Lions are matrilineal!! 

When I contacted Craig Packer, one of the world’s leading lion researchers, to talk  about this story he was IMMEDIATELY AVAILABLE. He Skyped me almost instantly from a camp in Kenya and said he’s been waiting for someone to ask him this question since the original film came out.

Anyway, if The Lion King were real, Nala would be the star, Sarabi would be holding her up saying everything the light touches is our kingdom, Simba would have left and never come back, and when Nala got old enough Sarabi would have carved out a territory for her to rule.”

- Erin Biba‏ 

In real life, Simba’s mom would be running the pride

UPDATE:

“Reasons men gave for lecturing me on lion pride social structure and telling me one of the world’s leading lion researchers is wrong (I am not kidding these are real): -Watched The Lion King DVD extras -Read a textbook 25 years ago -Has been to the zoo -Everyone just knows

If you ever wondered what it’s like to be a woman that communicates science, this is what it’s like. Any expertise you or your sources may have gained over decades of hard work are null and void because someone watched a DVD extra 25 years ago.”

-  Erin Biba 

Hey that last one is a Mood
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pryde-before-the-fall:

armitage-hux-dameron:

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pryde-before-the-fall:

stormyourtroopers:

armitage-hux-dameron:

That’s it. Hugs has been missing for too long. I’m going. I’m taking the baby, BB-8 and Millicent. I think I’m going to invite Finn [profile] stormyourtroopers to see if he wants to help. I don’t know if he will. He’s not super fond of Hugs, but he likes Kaleb and we’re best friends. And best friends go out looking for each other’s missing spouses, right?

Don’t know whether to invite the FIL [profile] pryde_before_the_fall or not. If he has something to do with it, it’s all bad. I really should suspect him more than I do. He’s literally the manifestation of The Evil Guy, like the way Tarkin was The Evil Guy of my parent’s generation until he blew up and then I think The Evil Guy was the person who made that Max Rebo Ripoff Band popular. But for some reason, I can’t honestly say I think he had anything to do with this. Still don’t trust him with the baby though, and I don’t know whether the babysitters are trustworthy either.

I don’t know anymore. All I know is that Hugs is in trouble and I’m going after him with the Sack of Protection if Danger Arises, which we put together a while back.

- PHD

I’m in.

Sack of Protection?

And bring Pryde anyway. I need to figure out how to bump him off, learn to deal with him, or convince him to stay out of the Order or else he might unravel the revolution.

- Finn

I can read this, you know.

I’ve been out all day. Looked for the chicken duck woman thing. Couldn’t find her, but saw several duck tracks under the bushes by the windows.

Informed the Arkanis Coast Guard, and they have told me that they’ll send a boat out to Dead Admiral’s Cove. There are steep cliffs by that cove. And we all know how it got its name, unfortunately.

Armitage, if you can read this please come home. Not for me. For Kaleb, your tooka cat that you’ll have to look after because I’m allergic, and your husband.

*sighs * This is procrastination. If what I think has happened has happened, I’ll need to go back to Exeagol. I’ll see if I can bribe Rey into coming with. If she brings Ren, that would be an annoyance but possibly a useful annoyance for once.

We shouldn’t bring the baby there. I would advise that we leave him with Kes. He may be a Rebel, but he raised Poe and didn’t give him any sort of complex or issues along the way.

-Allegiant General Pryde

Ooc: not gonna get back to this until the weekend.

What’s the problem? Two of my three options for interacting with you are fine! I didn’t even suggest poisoning, which is a First Order tradition.

- Finn

OOC - no probs!

Alright. My dad can babysit Kaleb while we’re gone. In the meantime, I’m looking at the traffic situation in Exegol, and it looks pretty bad. It looks like Palps has been throwing even more junk into the airspace ever since he’s come back to power (somehow; I still think he should be dead). I don’t know whether we should try to maneuver around it or ram through it or what. Oh well. I’ll figure out something.

So, Exegol it is.

[profile] stormyourtroopers - Are you meeting us at Exegol or do you want me to swing by an asteroid rest stop and pick you up from there?

Also, can we split the fuel fees? Lightspeed is really pricy but I want to get to Hugs fast.

- PHD

[profile] pryde_before_the_fall - I don’t know what your intentions are, but if you hurt Hugs I’ll end you.

I can pay for fuel.

My intentions are to find Armitage, get him away from Palpatine, and then murder Palpatine with a poisoned cup of tea. He can survive electrocution and being thrown down a pit, but I don’t think he can survive being paralyzed by a neurotoxin and having both large and small intestines dissolve at once.

He can read minds, so I will sit you, Poe, down beside him and serve you tea first. I will not tell you anything more about my plan because if you know, Palpatine can read your mind and kill us both. I intend for you to be nervous and suspicious of me.

But I also intend for you to survive. Palpatine will sense that I have murderous intentions, but he will find it easy to believe that they are for you rather than himself. FN—sorry, Finn, if Poe is unwilling or unable to assist me, you will do in a pinch. I have believable reasons to hold grudges against either of you.

Fine, I will say it: I wish I had never searched for and found Palpatine, dragged him out of the Abyss that Vader threw him down and taken him to a hospital. But the Imperial leadership structure had collapsed, and people were suffering because of it. If you were there and saw some of the things I saw: disorder, superior officers selling their crews into slavery on Tatooine, famines due to the incompetence and apathy of the New Republic and constant fear everywhere, you might have done the same. And in the short term, it seemed worth it. In the long term, it was a horrible mistake.

I think he is trying to possess a younger, better-looking Force user. He very well might have tried with Kylo Ren. I believe he tried with Rey; she complained of headaches and persistent desires for Werther’s Originals. But both of these Force users were extremely strong and were able to expel him from their minds, I theorize. Armitage might just have enough of the Force to be an attractive target for Palpatine, but if he has it he’s certainly too weak to do much.

And now I feel stupid for not realizing this sooner. Armitage is obviously misanthropic but he rose to a position of power in management in spite of this. Nobody ever questioned it. Brendol never lifted a finger to help him, so it wasn’t nepotism.

For his sake and for all of our sakes, we must get Armitage to safety and kill Palpatine.

-Allegiant General Pryde

That plan sounds highly suspicious. Sounds like a very good way for you to take me, Finn [profile] stormyourtroopers and Palpatine out in one go and set up your Final Order with Armitage conveniently out of the picture.

But then again, I guess I am flying into a suicide trap regardless if you’re in on this with malevolent intent. And if I turn back now, I’m still caught in a ship with you, and if you wanted me dead, you’ve had many chances…

Why can’t we just go with a straightforward assassination plan that doesn’t involve you perhaps giving me poison?

Ugh. You know what. I don’t have any other ideas. But if I trust you with this, know that I’m doing this for Armitage and Kaleb, whom you supposedly care about, and if you have any decency left in you, you won’t trick me and leave Armitage a widower and leave Kaleb an orphan and leave BB-8 a wild droid with no master. 

- PHD

[profile] pryde_before_the_fall
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elodieunderglass:

kawuli:

elodieunderglass:

biochromium:

pr1nceshawn:

Sesame Seeds

Cranberry

Pineapple

Peanut

Cashew

Pistachio

Brussel Sprouts

Cacao

Vanilla

Saffron

Kiwi

Pomegranate

exactly 1 minute ago i had absolutely no idea what the plants sesame seeds and peanuts came from look like and i am shocked and surprised

for some reason every time I see pineapples growing I laugh out loud. Like, the punchline is it’s a pineapple!!!!!!!!! it’s a pineapple

An Interesting Fact About Peanuts, while we’re on the topic of food-plants:

Peanuts-you-eat grow underground, but they are NOT part of the peanut plant’s roots. Peanut plants are ambitious little fuckers and plant their seeds themselves. They flower like any perfectly reasonable legume, but once the flowers have been pollinated the plants do something called “pegging” (no really), in which they drill the stems where the flowers used to be into the ground. And that’s where the peanuts you eat form. Like so:

(src)

I’m going to pull myself together to endorse this Extremely Interesting Fact, but it’s going to be a real struggle

Ain’t botany fun?
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sirobvious:

tilthat:

TIL that drinking coffee daily lowers risk of suicide by 50% for both me and woman

via ift.tt

Good for you

I’m the woman
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yeet-ceit:

And for those who present as their assigned gender because it feels more comfortable for whatever reason! Your identity is valid regardless of any way you present or any reason!

enbybizness:

Here’s to nonbinaries who represent as their assigned gender because doing otherwise would endanger them.

Here’s to nonbinaries who represent as their assigned gender because they feel like they aren’t passing enough to be an NB.

Here’s to nonbinaries who represent their assigned gender because of internalized phobia about their identity.

Here’s to nonbinaries who get misgendered or accidentally misgender themselves because they’re still adjusting or are afraid of making a big deal about their identity.
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samtheviking:

tilthat:

TIL the “Y2K bug”, wherein people feared computers glitching on the 1st of Jan 2000 and crushing the global economy but never happened, was a real crisis that was averted with $500B dollars in Global preparation spending

via reddit.com

I hate it when people say the Y2K bug was a “hoax”. No, it was a very real concern that was avoided by millions of programmers, some coming out of retirement, working around the clock to fix the problem before it happened. They succeeded, and instead of being thanked for their efforts, most people just assumed that since nothing bad happened, it wasn’t real.

That’s the trouble, isn’t it? Disaster preparedness and aversion only get noticed when they go horribly wrong. *waves vaguely around at the present* If you actually _did_ prevent the problem, it wasn’t real, and you wasted money and time on something that didn’t happen.
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This feels like a good time to get used to leaving your phone at home if you’re not required to go out regularly. Quarantine is resetting your tracked movement patterns so now is a good time to figure out what time periods of which days of the week you’ll routinely leave that tracking device on its charger. If you’re only leaving home for quick trips to get essentials you might start “acclimating” to that now.
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